Change Your Expectations & Outsmart Your Narcissist. Observe Don't Absorb Them Into Oblivion

In this video I talk about how one's expectations of harmful narcissists keeps a person engaged in a futile power and control struggle - that is impossible to win. Being honest with yourself, and knowing what is not possible in such a relationship, enables you to find more inner strength and confidence. This strategy is related to my Observe Don't Absorb technique.

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